Hello there anyone...
I decide to write this post after watch a tv show last week about relationships online. I was really worry with all the stories that i saw, i felt like share some information that can be helpful for who is on a search for a love online, this is for all you that is trying or is thinking about go online in a relationship web site, i will try give some advice's so feel free to share your experience and help with this post, because still have woman and man that believe in everything that is saying online, we can not believe in everything is say to us online, people make stories and people can be bad.
the tv show that make me think about that woman, they was on the middle of a investigations after about 80 woman denounce about losing money they send to they "boyfriends" in overseas. Those woman have a online profile in a website about finding love etc... I had this kind of profile before so i know how that work, we search and we can be search too for others that can be a possible romance, is fun and you feel comfortable to talk when you are shy on real life, this kind of social contact can help people improve the way the relate with people. My experience in romances online help me with some tips that can be helpful to people that are into this social websites waiting for a beautiful story.
First, nobody is perfect if you are looking for a prince is better you give up right now, go out have some beers and talk with friends. Suspect about the beautiful profile that the guy is beautiful have a beautiful body, beautiful words, have lots of hobbies and a wonderful social life, why? because if he really have a wonderful social life he would not be bottle to be searching someone online, he would meet someone already. All cases have exceptions but is better suspect about this one that take the chance.
Suspect more about this one that dont want have live contact, these days everyone have a webcam, so everyone that is real serious is able to chat online with the camera on so is nothing to hide. Dont give your home number, these days is also possible find the address just with your home number so is another chance you give to someone bad find where you live. Suspect about those one that says that is madly in love to you after just one week chat and more important have a notebook close to your computer so you can write down some information's about this person like age, full name, town, status, background... People that lie, they fall in contradictions, if you keep your book those information's it will be easy catch up the one that lie to you. Example have one person that once say he was 31 years old, the one week later he says he was 35, and also say something about living alone, before he said he live with his parents... Is simple things that people say, that if you are paying attention you can catch and end it on the beginning.
The real person that is online looking for a relationship never lie and is not in a bad position, he works and do not need any money, he do not have a member of his family sick needing a surgery or something similar, do not trust in someone that is madly in love to you and is asking you for money, never... if this happen you should really tell the police about it because that is people using internet resources to take advantage of your innocence.
Do not be naive,there is bad people and good people in everywhere, why not on internet? Is better have patience and have fun with the right person that get yourself in a terrible situation. i know is hard for those people that feel insecure in real life and need get out of the reality for a while and have some fun online, but is also need take care about what information you give and pay attention on the information people are giving you.
If you really found someone and you are ready for the first date, witch should be after more or less one month talk, with lots of talk... let someone close know where you going and put all his information in your book, also prefer public places, shopping center always work.
I really hope this post help you that are feeling lonely and is thinking about search online for one love, remember you can also try other things, like put yourself in a dance classes or whatever you are interested to do but never did, sometimes we have to push our self to start things that we think is impossible but is not, everyone can have a health social life, does not need to be mrs. happy, just try something new can be really pleased.
Last tip suspicious of the perfect. We have to face that no one is perfect, look into the imperfections and enjoy life, because life is ephemeral.
Have a great week all and take care always!
